Park Playdates, Potluck Style

The older my children get, the less and less time it seems I have with my friends.  You think when school is out for summer, that you could catch up, but I almost seem busier then.  With this in mind, last year, I set up a playdate at a park and asked everyone who came to bring a little something for the snack table.  This is such a great way to see your friends (and lots at one time), for your kids to see their friends, get fresh air, and have some great treats...heck you might not have to make lunch.  Below are a few tips to help you plan yours....

• Choose a date.  I don't like to do weekends because the parks seem way too busy.  You are so pre occupied watching your kids that you don't get a good visit in.

• Choose a time.  Early mornings work the best.  It is still not too hot out, people with younger children won't miss their bedtimes, and the park is usually quieter.

• Choose a park.  Choose a park that you are familiar with and know.  It should also be central for everyone.

• Send out invites. I find that creating an event on Facebook works the best.  People can post on the wall, you can post a link for a map on how to get to the park, and you can get a good idea of who is in and who is not.  Don't forget to ask everyone to bring a little something for the snack table.  Include your cell phone number so people can call you if they get lost on the way.  You probably want to send out the invitation at least a week in advance so people can plan to come.

• Send out a reminder.  A day or two before your playdate, send out a reminder email.  I know that with all that is going on, I totally would forget my head if it wasn't attached.

• What to pack.  Before you head out, you should have some essentials with you.
• Paper plates
• Napkins
• Knife
• Two garbage bags.  One for garbage and the other for recycling.
• Sunscreen and Bug Spray
• Plastic table cloth.  You never know what condition picnic tables are going to be in.
• Wet wipes
• Outside toys like soccer balls or a frisbee.
• Weights....like balloon weights or a paper weight.  Use these to hold down your plastic table cloth, plates, and napkins.

• Arrive Early.  Come early and set up.  You can also scope out the site.

• Have Fun!